ok this is what happened!!!!!!!
i got a ruler out and measured the standoffs!!!
the ones i stuck in the front are 5/8 so those do go to the rear, but the short ones i have in the rear that were provided with the kit are only 3/8" ill take a pik with it ion a ruler so u will believe me. i got the wrong standoffs. i need 2 3/4 standoffs sent to me to correct the problem! this explaines why i had to use the spacer idea i had for the front and why the rear is so far off. ill post the pic in a min. let me know when u will be able to send the right ones. all i need is the 2 3/4" standoffs.
notice. now if i had 3/4" in front i wouldnt need the spacers. and the ones that i have up there would fit perfectly in the rear! please send 3/4" standoffs that go for the kit and my issues will be solved! also you might need to update ur bag of hardware to correct the problem for future orders.