I used to hang over there, and for a short time was leaning in that direction, but I got sick of the forced structure and clic-iness.
Even kept trying to hang in the supposed "chat" but couldn't find anyone to talk mods with, just babbling.
I tried hanging at RCMod, but they wouldn't post pics of my cars, and grossly oversimplified my mods when interpreting them on the site, even with me sending detailed descriptive text.
Mostly, there's just no new ground being broken there, sorry RC, nothing personal.
I hated THIS forum for a short time because of it's lack of structure, but learned to appreciate the openess of the ideas exchange, even if it means dealing with a high noise level.
(As mentioned, mostly kids right?)
I also had a "don't buy from either" policy becuase of the feud.
I now only hang here, and if I wasn't doing as well at my LHS and scrounging, I'd be ordering stuff from here like a b stard!
If you look, I'm sure you'll see all kinds of stuff from me saying the exact same thing you described though.
I'm much better now.
Screw those guys!
(see?)